I am new to this forum, and i see plenty of nice people willing to help

I bought a second hand MS2 daughterboard that has a fried 9s12 (12v) and i need some help to upload firmware to the newely installed mcu.
I have xprog-m bdm interface that can only accept .bin files, i tried to upload bootstrap, msns extra firmware etc. but the board acts dead, and i get 0xe0 error (tiemout)....
It seems i am missing serial monitor or i am doing something wrong ?
Can somebody help me, or share the files needed ? Can this be done with my xprog programmer that does not suppport s19 files ?
Kind Regards
RAle